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8. Exclusivity and CommitmentExclusivity_and_Commitment.htmlExclusivity_and_Commitment.htmlshapeimage_1_link_0
1. IntroductionIntroduction.htmlIntroduction.htmlshapeimage_2_link_0

The Ordinary Extraordinary

Polyamory as Lived by One Couple

(a shared memoir and more)

4. Before Us: AnnaBefore_Us__Anna.htmlBefore_Us__Anna.htmlshapeimage_3_link_0
2. Notes on the History of PolygamyNotes_on_the_History_of_Polygamy.htmlNotes_on_the_History_of_Polygamy.htmlshapeimage_4_link_0
3. Before Us: AlanBefore_Us__Alan.htmlBefore_Us__Alan.htmlshapeimage_5_link_0
5. The Halting StartThe_Halting_Start.htmlThe_Halting_Start.htmlshapeimage_6_link_0
6. The Better Angels of Our NatureThe_Better_Angels_of_Our_Nature.htmlThe_Better_Angels_of_Our_Nature.htmlshapeimage_7_link_0
7. The PuddingThe_Pudding.htmlThe_Pudding.htmlshapeimage_8_link_0
9. Multiplicity and FatigueMultiplicity_and_Fatigue.htmlMultiplicity_and_Fatigue.htmlshapeimage_9_link_0
10. The Anatomy LessonThe_Anatomy_Lesson.htmlThe_Anatomy_Lesson.htmlshapeimage_10_link_0
11. Where Do You Find These Women?Where_Do_You_Find_These_Women.htmlWhere_Do_You_Find_These_Women.htmlshapeimage_11_link_0
12. The Reactions of SomeThe_Reactions_of_Some.htmlThe_Reactions_of_Some.htmlshapeimage_12_link_0
13. Three in the World’s Eye: Portrayals of PolyamoryThree_in_the_Worlds_Eye__Portrayals_of_Polyamory.htmlThree_in_the_Worlds_Eye__Portrayals_of_Polyamory.htmlshapeimage_13_link_0
14. Three in the World: Known ArrangementsThree_in_the_World__Known_Arrangements.htmlThree_in_the_World__Known_Arrangements.htmlshapeimage_14_link_0
15. Three in a Home: How It WorksThree_in_a_Home__How_It_Works.htmlThree_in_a_Home__How_It_Works.htmlshapeimage_15_link_0
16. In ConclusionIn_Conclusion.htmlIn_Conclusion.htmlshapeimage_16_link_0

Alan and Anna

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The book is approachable and eminently readable without sacrificing intelligence.
It explores not only our polyamory but the world’s varied experience of that lifestyle.

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The Ordinary Extraordinary:

Polyamory as Lived by One Couple

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an Afterward covering many

of the years since the

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